There could come a point when you may want to stray off from your normal routine and have some excitement on the side. Maybe you thought of having an affair with a woman you just came across in a dating site. However, you are scared of getting caught. Well, you should be. The truth of the matter is that an affair is not something to take lightly. It is something serious and risky, but if you follow these five tips you can avoid these risks.
1. Always give enough attention to your marriage. You have a wife and probably kids too. Therefore, you have to make sure your responsibilities to your family are met before you think of having an affair. This means that you have to give quality time to your kids and wife, spend enough time with them and provide them with what they need. Also, it would help a lot if you continue to satisfy all of your wife's "womanly" needs. If you do that, your wife will surely trust you and would not suspect you of doing something fishy when you get home late. As long as you maintain a facade of giving your all to your family, you and your secret will be safe.
2. Don't change your daily routine too drastically. It's understandable to feel excited, especially at the beginning of an affair, but you have to control yourself. You should not meet the other woman too often. Be discreet in your dealings with her. It is understandable to feel suddenly energetic and out of control at the beginning of the affair. The best strategy is to do everything slowly and act as naturally as you can. Maintain the normal pace of your days as though you were not having an affair. This way, your wife will not notice anything out of ordinary in your schedules that might lead her to suspect that you're doing something behind her back.
3. Be a good liar. Once you start having an affair with other women you will have to lie to a lot of people, even to those you especially care about. At times when you have to meet your other woman, you need to prepare a believable excuse if you get home later than you normally do. Your wife will surely ask you where you've been, maybe purely out of curiosity, but if you can't lie to her convincingly you could be in a lot of trouble. If you think that lying is hard for you to do then perhaps you are truly not ready for an affair and what it entails. Believe me, being a good liar can bail you out in an otherwise dead-end situation so knowing whether or not you can pull of a good lie time and time again is crucial.
4. Don't show sudden sweetness for your wife. If you feel guilty for having an affair, then you should stop seeing the other woman. Call it quits. You can't live a life bothered by your conscience. Sometimes men become extra-sensitive when they feel guilty and do something outrageously sweet for their wives thinking that they should somehow make it up to them. Women are really perceptive. They have this thing you might have heard of called woman's intuition. The moment you show affection out of the blue, especially if you have not been showing affection before, may actually put your spouse on the defensive. They might sense guilt all over your wonderful gesture, and before you know it she is suspicious. A woman's suspicion usually leads to you getting caught.
5. Plan your schedules well. If you're meeting another woman, a certain percentage of your time is spent with this woman. Somehow, your old daily schedule may not suffice anymore. Make it a point that whatever changes you do in your day to day activities, it won't be something that will catch your wife's attention (or anyone's attention for that matter). If you have to go home late one night, make sure you have excuses ready in case your wife asks you where you've been. Whatever excuses you make, they should be airtight and foolproof.
In conclusion, having an affair with another woman could be an entirely new experience for you. You have to remember though, that it is very risky. However, if you follow the tips above, you should be okay.
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Originally posted 2011-06-29 22:26:17. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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